Couples and Flirting

Couples and Flirting

We all flirt; we may not want to admit, but the truth is we do. The question may be why. This article will discuss the why’s and if you must, the correct ways to flirt.

Let’s first describe flirting; flirting is done when we see someone that we are attracted to; flirting can be shown by the way we dress, our body language and how we talk. Flirting is usually done in fun with no specific intention; it allows you to release parts of your social and sexual energy with, at times, little to no expectations.

There are several ways to flirt:

• One method is through body language, such as hand rubbing, eye contact or even how you caress your hair as you talk.

• Another method is the way you talk; you may begin with just a few words then as you continue to talk and get to know them you may become a bit more seductive and playful.

• One of my favorites is the verbal connection; compliment their manner of dress, their looks and their accomplishments, in other words, hold them in high esteem. Flirting in a relationship can usually make your time together more exciting and adventurous.

One word of advice in flirting; stay within your comfort zone; if you or your partner feel any type of anxiety or anger it would be in your best interest to be less flirtatious.

Finally, flirting can be fun and may help improve your self-confidence and self-esteem; you need not worry about being rejected because your aim is to have fun and make the other person feel important. As in anything, flirting is a behavior that gets better as you get older.

Good Luck !!