October 3, 2021

Love and Luck

Notes From Dad

There’s an old saying “lucky in love”, that we all may have heard at least once in our lives, however, is luck really necessary for a couple’s relationship to survive. This article will look at the importance of luck in your relationship and offer some tips to use when your luck runs out.

At a recent gathering, several people questioned if love and luck are necessary. The correct answer is that love is not luck, yet it is important. Love is meeting that special person and creating a life with feelings and emotions. So how does luck play into your relationship you may ask.; well, there are a few tell-tale signs;

Your family, environment, and how you live your life all contributed to love and luck. Let’s take a look at the family first;

Your family, especially your grandparents and parents are role models; they help us to live a good life and to know the difference between what is right and what is wrong. Unfortunately, not all people are privileged to this so sometimes role models can be detrimental to your life. A good acronym is REC- Respect/Educate and Communicate.

The environment is an important part of your life because it provides a secure and positive atmosphere. Your behavior is influenced by the environment and can provide ownership and motivation that can shape your future.

The last part of love and luck is you. You have choices in your life. When you become an adult, you can choose who you like, where you live and even who to listen to. You are born with certain capabilities like a conscience and a type of personality that can attract others to you. Finding yourself sometimes takes years but once you do you will find that it was worth the wait.

Good Luck !!