December 20, 23
Loving Each Other No Matter What
Notes From Dad
Loving Each Other No Matter What
When two people fall in love their thoughts turn to dreams of happiness and hopes; for love and hope is what brings a couple together and satisfies each other's need. You support one another, share dreams and never stop being their best friend, sounds wonderful; yet what happens to those feelings when life gets erratic and difficult; how do you still love each other with the same passion and commitment. This article will suggest some ideas that may help to keep that loving feeling alive.
First, staying in love no matter what, does take a certain amount of patience, trust and self-confidence; unconditional love, except if there is any form of abuse, does happen. People we love will make mistakes and err in judgement, so accept the truth none of us are perfect. Once you come to terms with that, you admit that your soulmate is forever no matter what happens.
Second, when things begin to unwind in your relationship, don’t pretend all will be okay. It’s necessary to address the issue and work on solutions that will begin to lessen the problem.
Third, remember your vows: for better or worse; the better usually always come first and the worst may come later in life through illness, financial or family issues. If the worst happens to make an entry into your life, find time for yourselves and remember your commitment. Reach inside yourself and offer each other support, trust and a plan to rebuild the relationship.
Finally, remember the seven letter word that will begin the journey of healing -- Forgive- to forgive someone means loving them no matter what!
Good Luck !!