June 19, 2021

Making a difference

Notes From Dad

When two partners begin a relationship the idea of making a difference is not a concern but as the relationship grows each partner wants to make a difference in one another’s life. The thoughts of doing that can be scary and challenging. This article will discuss the ways and means to accomplish this goal and bring your relationship to a higher level.

In the early days of a relationship partners tend to go slow and feel one another out. What is important in most relationships is that you stay true to yourself so your partner can begin to know the true you. Being yourself helps solidify an honest impression of who you are and will help your partner understand you as a person.

Next, try to become interested in your partner’s life activities and be willing to share them. This may help form a connection that could lead to a fun and happy union between each other. When couples share similar interests the possibility of long lasting relationship may be strengthened.

Accept the fact that neither one of you are perfect. We all have flaws and having the wisdom and ability to see this can help channel the way to your partner’s heart. Remember sometimes what you see is what you get.

In making a difference it is important to develop trust in a relationship. Trust takes time and you should allow yourself to take the time to build a healthy relationship. When trust is developed it allows both partners to be open with their feelings and emotions and this will open the door to progressing in your relationship.

Finally, one sure way in making a difference is to acknowledge that people appreciate having someone just being there. Be a friend and listen; refrain from passing judgement or giving an opinion. Always remember a relationship will have its ups and downs but if you are committed to your partner, the difference that you make could lead to a happy and loving life.

Good Luck !