March 20, 2021

Appreciating That Inner Circle of Family and Friends

Notes From Dad

We all have them, family and friends and what is important is how we intertwine with them. Understand that at times that may be difficult, however, for a relationship to flourish, it is important to accept them.

It is helpful if you surround yourself with friends and family that will make a difference in both your lives. Here are some ways that will be helpful in your relationship and have an impact on everyone’s life.

First, pay attention to birthdays. Write them down on calendar, cell phone or tablet/computer. Remembering someone’s birthday show you care and that gives your relationship a positive tone.

Second, stay close; just because you are now in a relationship, your family and friends should not be ignored. Take the time to see one another through dinner or get togethers.

Third, sometimes it’s nice to see family and friends without your partner because it shows your ability to be independent of one another.

Fourth, in this world of technology, it only takes a few seconds to text a special message, displaying your thoughtfulness. You never know when that one text could change their day.

Finally, understand that as partners you may have different opinions on family and friends, but in any successful relationship, communicate your reasons and concerns and try to compromise the situation.

Remember family and friends are important in helping you both plan for your future. Good Luck!!