Attributes in a Woman
This article will address a man’s concerns on the attributes of a
woman; it will consider a few examples of what is important to you and
your happiness; we will address a man’s attributes next article.
Many of today’s couples are together due to certain attributes in one
another; as your relationship grows you needed to ask the question if this
woman is the one; the one person you want by your side and the
woman you want to share your life with.
So let’s begin: to me one of the most important attributes a woman
should have is loyalty; You want and need someone by your side that will
be committed to you, not only during the happy times but also during
difficult ones as well. A woman needs to be sincere and honest, in a few
words your best friend that won’t judge you. Loyalty can be looked at as
faithfulness and trust in the building blocks of a relationship.
Another attribute that I admire in a woman is the ability to
communicate not only verbal but non-verbal as well. To communicate
effectively, it is important to listen and stay focused. When communicating
give direct eye to eye contact, show you care. There is a “48 hour rule”
used in communication practice- basically this means wait 48 hours to see
if the anger/hurt is still there. When you engage in open and genuine
communication it helps solidify your relationship.
Compassion, to me, is another one of those attributes that can only
bring love into a relationship. Compassion can be an everyday affair; it
could be a smile, a hug, a shoulder to lean or cry on: compassion is all
about showing how much you care for your partner
Finally, it’s all about family. This is very important because this attribute
holds the keys for a healthy and happy relationship. The family is the core
of one’s life; it brings not only happiness but a feeling of warmth and
acceptance. Good family relationships influence the values you desire.
My next article will look at men’s attributes but until then