Summer Love
Summer time for most of us can be an adventure in finding our
soulmate; why is this, well one reason may be because of the factors
associated with summer; the warm weather, social gatherings, less
clothing and less stress. However, be careful don’t get entrapped by
having a relationship built on fun and broken promises. This article will
attempt to look at the do’s and don’t of beginning a relationship during the
summer.
Depending who you ask, summer is one of the most romantic seasons
to fall in love. How to make this happen depends on what you do. First,
this is the time to take the opportunity to get out and meet people. This is
the time to let loose and have fun. You want to try new adventures such
as attending cookouts, sunset walks, stargaze and so much more.
Second, use the warm weather and longer days to your advantage;
During the summer there is usually less stress and more opportunity to
meet opposite sex. It’s time to play the field and not worry about
commitment. Summer time offers freedom to explore and create an
atmosphere of mystery and romance so enjoy. Lastly, rediscover yourself;
many people need this time to connect with themselves and understand
the makeup of who you are. Learn from time past, apply to the present
and plan for the future. Summertime can empower people to find possibly
a soulmate but for sure it will blend some fun and sun in your search.
The don’ts: Although summertime is wonderful there can be some
mishaps and broken hearts. A common mistake made is the need to find
a relationship early: time is short but so aren’t relationships that people
rush into; take your time and be patient. Another concern to be aware of
Is don’t let your guard down; use your skills of communication; listen to
what is being said and be a realist: don’t lose yourself in the whirlwind.
Finally, be yourself and not someone you want to be, so don’t lie.
All lies eventually come to a surface and if your hope is for a successful
relationship and a romantic summer- be honest from the start.
