Couples - Falling Out of Love

Couples --Falling Out of Love

This is such a difficult fate, yet it happens to married and unmarried people every day. A break up doesn’t just happen; it is brought on by months or years of emptiness and lack of love and respect for each other. This article will attempt to offer some advice that may prevent such a vacancy from happening.

Signs of falling out of love; First, lack of compassion or intimacy; no longer the excitement of being together, instead, one or both of you craving alone time. What is needed here is for both of you to communicate with each other and express inner feelings. This can be done though a counselor or just between yourselves. You need to identify when and how this happened and offer some ideas, such as more loving alone time; making time exclusively for each other and rebuilding trust and respect.

Another sign could be the lack of appreciation; this feeling leads to anger and unhappiness. When we make someone feel good about something they did or said it may cause them to feel better about themselves and make a difference in your relationship. Be careful when using your words; for example instead of making negative innuendos, be positive and reward your partner with a hug, kiss etc. Everyone wants to feel this way and it is an important element in the relationship.

The last sign, although there are several others; you no longer look forward to planning a future together; the thought of buying a home, having children, going on vacation or celebrating a certain moment creates stress and unhappiness. This is when you need to communicate with one another and decide if you both want the same things, if not then your time together may be in jeopardy. Relationships may be saved through kindness, supporting each other and finding the love you both once shared.

Good Luck !!