Couples and Choices

Couples and Choices

This component in a relationship is the beginning of a life together that can be rewarding and also difficult. Decision making may be challenging, yet, if done correctly, may be the cornerstone of your and your partner’s connection. This article will share some of those choices and offer some suggestions to help you both manage your lives.

One of the first choices in a relationship is the question, is this person correct for me. You alone are in control of this choice; your happiness and future are on the line. There is some help in this area that can make your choice acceptable. Try to look for the acronym - TOE-

T stands for trust; are you able to allow yourself to be honest and reliable on your choice; will they remain dedicated to you during the good and bad times and are you both willing to resolve conflicts in a meaningful way.

O stands for other, presumably your soul mate, the person who makes you feel important and loved. They are your best friend and confident; they balance your life in three ways, emotionally, intellectually and physically. They also bring out your best features and are easy to talk to.

The last letter is E, which stands for empathy. Empathy is the ability to feel one’s pain and insights. In a relationship it is important to have such feelings. Having such, allows you to be a better listener, forgo pre-determine judgments and allows you to step out of your comfort zone. Empathy is a skill that needs to be devoted to daily in any relationship.

Finally, choices you make as a couple need to be made carefully; choices made can determine the life you and your partner will have.

Good Luck !!