Like the weather it is time to change.

Think about it, this time of year, as a couple, you exit the winter comforts and face new changes and challenges. Each year you and your partner work together to make changes that will freshen your relationship and bring new memories. This article will suggest some changes and hopefully bring you both a cleansing and fresh start to another year of love and happiness.

“Winter blues”, is a saying that pretty much means a life that is unhappy and depressing. Moods change and anxiety increases. However, like spring flowers, you and your partner will inhale the warm sun and fresh air and blossom by bringing new life towards each other. In most relationships, change is good; the changes can lead to growing closer or further apart.

The key in changing oneself is to identify the new you and accept that your partner also feels the need to make changes. Changes bring about different behaviors; positive behaviors will happen more often if they are associated with gratification; in other words embrace the joyful times and dismiss the negative. Make your partner look forward to spending time with you and desire the new you; just like spring cleaning it's time to give your relationship a new facelift.

An important fact to remember, is you need to be honest, because faking change will only come back to break up your relationship. As you and your partner grow, the truth is, you both will influence one another and that process can lead to love.

One important thing about change: change is something new and exciting; as mentioned earlier, change will influence behavior; change will also bring about changes in your personality. When this happens, it will be very important to have an open line of communication that not only supports the changes but also one another.

Finally, understand that we all go through changes and usually it is beneficial to each of you. Change happens because it is seen as a positive way of life and produces energy vibes that invites your partner to not only understand you but accept the new you;

Good Luck !!