July 19, 2022

The Gateway to Happiness

Notes From Dad

The Gateway to Happiness

All couples want happiness in their relationship; but the question that is being asked is, what is happiness and how do we obtain it in our lives. This article will touch upon what happiness is and how to obtain such a feeling.

First, happiness may be described as a feeling that illuminates your life; it's a feeling that makes getting up each day worthwhile. Happiness can be described as a fulfillment in one’s life, surrounded by positive energy. In life when two people connect the chemistry they share is the first step towards becoming a couple. Types of happiness can be due to relationships, need, finances and security; these are all important traits in a couple’s future. One important note to make is to have a sense of happiness within your inner-self; when you are in a relationship with someone who has confidence, self - worth and high self -esteem, those key components may lead to the type of person you want to be with for the rest of your life.

Now that we have an idea what happiness may be, let’s now look at the gateway towards happiness, which is the goal for such a true and loving relationship. The first thing that is important in a relationship is to look for someone that can be trusted and respected. The love for one another usually comes at the end of the journey; you look for role models than inspire what happiness looks and feels like; Together, you focus on the importance of each other through likes and dislikes; both of you need to communicate feelings and be open toward changes your future may have before you.

Finally, like any gateway, their will be times of breakdowns and meltdowns; on these occasions it’s important that both of you face the elephant in the room and work on the miscommunication, not to hold it in because it may come back to haunt you.

Good Luck in your travels !!