April 16, 2022

Equality in Couples

Notes From Dad

During these times of disturbing inequalities, there needs to be some form of guidelines and respectfulness given to one another. This pertains especially to couples that desire a happy and loving relationship. This article will touch upon some ways to show thoughtfulness and admiration to your partner.

One favorable way is to understand that equality means respect; the respect of feelings, ideas, opinions and aspirations. With respect comes trust, trust is a crucial part of a relationship, and may help you both rely on one another when difficult circumstances occur. Being respectful also involves the use of applying social skills, such as listening, eye contact and compromising.

The next type is all about fairness; fairness has many identities in which couples show compassion and being sensitive to your partner. The perception between couples is that being fair tends to lead to happiness and equality. With fairness comes dignity, by showing dignity to your partner, you are acknowledging their needs are just as important as yours. Being fair does not mean if you rub my back I'll rub yours, no, being fair means making a solid effort to recognize and appreciate one another.

As we move on, let's look at another key element that is part of having equality and that is communication, constructive communication, in which one hopes to promote their understanding and love. Couples need to discuss their feelings and views with no fear of negative retribution. A mistake some people may make, is who is right and who is wrong[ you must realize this is not a competition, stay away from the blame game, it never usually works.

Finally, team work; a couple, who are focused on making their relationship work, develops some form of goals and ambitions; it’s a collaborative effort that brings both of you onto the same page; it’s a blend of emotions and passion that may solidify the purpose of your relationship. Remember, it takes both of you to make this work and feel equal to each other.

Good Luck !!