Sharing Time Together

A great mystery in a couple’s relationship is how much time is too much or not enough when it comes to the couple's sharing time together. This article will view some pros and cons from couples that have experienced this form of behavior.

Cons

First, as a couple, you both may find it difficult getting used to lack of independence. Some examples, picking up clothes, cleaning the house, sleeping habits etc. A couple, when together, may not have the come and go style they once had; some may feel that their life is compromised and feel uneasy finding a neutral space to unwind and recharge. One more con about sharing time together is eventually you start to experience boredom, in your conversations, your hobbies and the feelings you may have could be taken for granted leaving you both hurt and confused. In other words, it's possible that the quality of your time is less exciting and more trite.

Pros

Now let’s look at the pro’s of sharing time together: it’s important to know more than 65% of couples share time; that is important because that means more couples are spending time with each other and you are in the majority. One good reason for sharing time together is, as you become closer to one another, each of you are beginning to understand the importance in the relationship. Your aim is to become the best friend, without replacing the best friend. Each day shared together builds a stronger bond, physically, intellectually and emotionally. By sharing time together, both of you may develop a common thread that empowers you both to make decisions together and feel the essence of respect and trust. Couples who are able to share time together, may feed off one another and respond in a more positive manner to life’s challenges.

Conclusion

Finally, sharing time together is a decision that both of you need to make; just keep in mind that the time you do share should be one of quality and happiness. Good Luck !!