That Time of Year!

Such a wonderful time of year! It is back, that time of year when couples fall in love and begin to form new relationships. It is also a time where many questions may be asked such as- do we buy gifts for each other, how much to spend, if a dinner date is involved who pays and what about family, do you meet them or is it too soon.

This article will explore these concerns and help you and your partner to relax and enjoy the holidays together.

As a new couple it is very important at the beginning to try and learn as much about each other. Your likes, dislikes- your beliefs and really important each other’s holiday’s traditions. Example, if you both agree on giving gifts to one another, it may be wise to set a spending limit, that way you are not spending $200.00 while your partner spends $50.00. Or you both can plan a trip together and share the cost. Let’s see a real expensive gift you may not like or a trip to Florida that you both can enjoy.

It seems that couples tend to eat out a lot during the holidays, maybe it’s because it’s safer (lol). However, if frequently going out to eat, then the both of you need to come up with a fair compromise on who pays. Maybe take turns or look for coupons to save money, even better look for those two for one deals, there are plenty to be had this time of year.

Meeting family can always raise one’s stress level over the holidays, especially the very first one. Let’s face it, there are some families that can be quite challenging. In any case, I may suggest only a short visit, maybe dinner. When the two of you feel more comfortable than an overnight might be a nice idea to better get to know the family.

The holidays are awesome no doubt, however, be careful and be prepared that all that will happen will have its good and bad memories. Cherish the good and learn from the bad. These shared moments will begin to cement a relationship that can lead toward your future, hopefully as partners in marriage.

This time of year, when not only is their love is in the air but so isn’t happiness and wisdom. Try to make time for each other and avoid the hustle and bustle that tends to focus on stress. Remember the two most people are you