June 12, 2022

What Are You Really Looking for in a Partner

Notes From Dad

We all have some type of life goals; but what about goals for a future partner. This article will view some important and effective goals that may help to cement a lasting relationship.

When you and your partner begin dating you probably are not focusing on the future; this may happen as your relationship begins to become more serious and stronger feelings arise. So, with this being identified, here are some goals that may assist you in choosing a life long partner.

Attraction- this is not meant as only physical but mentally as well. Both attractions are important in a relationship because both stimulate the body and mind. Intimacy, keeps a relationship alive and exciting; while a mental attraction generates knowledge and interests you both share.

Respect- this is a game changer because you view your partner as a complete person and not someone you wish to control; in a healthy a respectful relationship, the ability to be open, honest and trustworthy determines how you may treat and love one another.

The next goal which may be important is the importance of family. How one interacts with family may give you a solid look into your future. Does your partner treat their family with love and respect; do they set time aside to engage with family and do they show physical feelings, like hugs or kisses to one another. How your partner intertwines with family may show you how you may be treated in the future.

Dependability is a goal that we all may take for granted sometimes; simple things like being on time, remembering important dates and being loyal can enhance the relationship. It builds trust and affection; it tells your partner you have their back. It demonstrates responsibility and attentiveness.

Finally, the last goal you may be looking at for in a partner is their empathy. Empathy shows compassion and understanding of feelings. It can be emotional or mentally; the important point here is that empathy leads to connections between one another and forms a bond.

Hope these suggestions help with your search for that awesome partner.

Good Luck !!