Politics

Unless you have been living under a rock for the past several months, there is a bitter battle going on between the Democratic and Republican Party. How does this relate to relationships, you may ask; politics has been around for centuries, and when discussed, it tends to lead people arguing and disagreeing with one another. However, this is a nice way to get to know your partner, their family and friends beliefs when it comes to politics. We all have opinions and point of views and have the right to express them. The delemas begin when other people fail to see or agree with your thoughts and emotions. This may lead to couple break-ups, arguments and anger. Discussing politics can be scary; people may change; some may even try to force their beliefs on their partner. In this article I will suggest several ways to deal with this topic and hopefully save your relationship.

First, take time to sit and discuss your thoughts and how the differences may impact your lives. Practice respect. Respect for another point of view; discuss on how your beliefs and difference are important to both of you. The important thing to remember is that when you have these talks think about how it will affect your future together. Topics such as abortion, gun control gay rights and health care, to name a few, can be life changing when the two of you fail to see and understand each other’s point of view.

Educate yourself on the topic and communicate with your partner why he or she feels different than you. There is that word once again- communicate-but this exchange or sharing of ideas and values will help you both recognize each other’s beliefs and may prevent ill feelings or anger that could lead to a relationship breakup. Always remember it’s okay to agree to disagree.

Finally, reflect on why you became a couple. Was it because of feelings that made you happy, important and attracted to each other or was it political beliefs and opinions? I would like to think it was because when together you feel complete and satisfied, and that you feel alone and an emptiness in your gut when apart.

So, look beyond the political madness and injustices and stay true to you heart. Love and life should be about creating happy and special memories to look upon in your later years.

Enjoy and Good Luck!!